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Child suicides in Japan hit record high

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new2994 years ago

The best numbers I could find for the US were these:

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/suicide

Which looks like 5 per 100000 for 10 to 14 year olds?

The Japanese population in this age range is ~5M:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_Japan

So at the US rate we’d except ~250 suicides in Japan if the rate was the same as the US.

Over the 12 to 15 range in Japan the article states there were 103 suicides.

The rates seem roughly comparable therefore?

It terrible that this is increasing, but it would be interesting to understand if this is unique to Japan or not.

Tade04 years ago

> It terrible that this is increasing, but it would be interesting to understand if this is unique to Japan or not.

Unfortunately not. The suicide capital of the world (including teenagers) is currently South Korea:

http://www.koreaherald.com/view.php?ud=20190501000216

which has the highest suicide rate among countries with a population of more than 5mln:

https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/suicide-r...

murph-almighty4 years ago

Maybe a total coincidence that I read this morbid news on South Korea while I've started watching Squid Game, but watching a show that's effectively an allegory of capitalist decline in South Korea makes this news not surprising.

staysafeanon4 years ago

>capitalist decline in South Korea makes this news not surprising.

South Korea is on a capitalist upswing, not decline. People forget that South Korea was worse off than most of Africa after the Korean War. Capitalism and democracy is what saved them.

Look at their brother to the North if you want to see a real decline.

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taurath4 years ago
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novok4 years ago
TomSwirly4 years ago

> South Korea is on a capitalist upswing, not decline.

Yes, that's exactly what PP posits as the cause of these suicides.

femiagbabiaka4 years ago

things can be good and bad for different reasons at the same time

canadianfella4 years ago

What are you talking about?

wyager4 years ago

Elite Overproduction is in full swing in South Korea. The costs of entering the upper class are increasing and the consequences of failing to enter it are getting worse. People are having almost no children because the costs are so high and the experience of being a child is so brutal (16+ hours of schooling a day is common).

I believe it was Malcom Kyeyune who joked that if North Korea nuked Seoul, it would be the best thing to ever happen to young people in South Korea.

The birth rate in South Korea is like 1/4th the birth rate of North Korea.

seoulmetro4 years ago

No. Upper class in Korea is more in reach than many other countries in the world. The elites control a lot of money, but it's not as bad as other countries either, and there are more of them.

People are having less children because there is constant downwards pressure to have less children, by society, by politics, by wealth/industry.

Having a kid doesn't cost a lot in South Korea. In fact it's usually beneficial. The problem is that having a kid basically means your main source of income is vulnerable and your situation will more than likely be negatively affected.

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wyager4 years ago
watwut4 years ago

Isn't that issue mostly raising inequality rather then elite overproduction?

ashtonkem4 years ago

Last time I looked into it, Japan’s suicide numbers were not as high as I’d been primed to expect. Japans suicide rate is less than America’s (14.5 vs 12.2 per 100k), and roughly equivalent to Sweden 12.4) and Norway (11.8). Still relatively elevated for OECD countries, but Japan’s reputation as an extremely high suicide rate country appears to be unearned. Countries like South Korea (21.2), Russia (21.6), Lithuania (20.2), and Ukraine (17.7) should generally get more attention on this matter than Japan does.

neaden4 years ago

This could be the difference between suicidality and completion of suicide. Firearms are linked to an increase of completed suicides but not attempts, which could explain the US's higher rate.

ashtonkem4 years ago

Access to firearms has certainly been shown to affect suicide rates, especially among men, given how surprisingly impulsive suicides are. But it's not sufficient, given that there are other countries with higher suicide rates and fewer firearms.

Also, while America has a lot of guns, there's also a lot of variance. The stats are a bit hard to compute, but there appear to be some states in the US that have fewer firearms per capita than some other countries, notably Switzerland, Canada, and Finland.

It's also worth pointing out that suicide by firearm is largely a male thing. In the United States women attempt suicide at 3x the rate that men do, but they tend to die because of that at a much lower rate (22.4 for men, 6.8 for women). The rate of completed female suicides is currently rising faster for women than men, worryingly.

It's complicated, basically.

And as always discussing suicide creates a contagion risk. If you're experiencing suicidal thoughts, please know that help is available at the national suicide prevention hotline, 800-273-8255.

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robocat4 years ago
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SV_BubbleTime4 years ago
naasking4 years ago

Also, Japan has a much larger aging population, so their cultural threshold for what's an "acceptable" suicide rate among the young could be much lower.

noobermin4 years ago

Sure but it doesn't explain South Korea

noobermin4 years ago

Like everything, including the supposed "virginity crisis," it's primed by the media that reaches western eyes that somehow people here think Japan is all an edgy anime.

bazooka_penguin4 years ago

Japan has been framed as weird and backwards since the 80s and 90s when the US took issue with their rising economy and encroachment on western industries

0des4 years ago

> The rates seem roughly comparable therefore?

Is this asking a question?

Edit: Today I learned the best course for a non native speaker is to not ask questions.

SirHound4 years ago

It’s an open offer for someone who understands better to clarify or confirm incase OP has missed something from their calculations.

0des4 years ago

It's confusing when people end what appears to be a declarative statement with a question mark, not sure why I'd get in trouble for asking.

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some0x800700054 years ago
Hoppetosse4 years ago

It can also be an artifact of a foreign language. The french interrogatory form can be the same as the declarative. It seems likely in this case, their use of "therefore" is equivalent to the fench "alors" which is often employed to "interrogate a declaration"

ivanbakel4 years ago

>not sure why I'd get in trouble for asking.

Both of your comments can be construed as linguistic pedantry. Particularly, saying "it's confusing" rather than e.g. "I find it confusing" is pretty prescriptive - and it just sounds like you're doubling down on your first comment.

If you want to ask a question about a feature of language, it helps to add the context that you're unfamiliar with the language itself. Otherwise, most readers will assume that you're attempting to correct the user you're replying to. Commenting on people's use of language is considered quite rude in most internet communities - not least because of the number of ESL users.

SirHound4 years ago

You're not in trouble?

Gravityloss4 years ago

I used this process, and came up with the numbers, 140 and 250, and they are kind of close in my opinion, though I'm not 100% sure. What do you think?

shortened, becomes:

I used this process, and came up with these numbers, 140 and 250, and they are kind of close?

Why you got in trouble: people thought you were criticizing the original comment for hiding a statement to look like a question. (A common underhanded tactic to do and a common criticism - "was that a question?".)

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someotherperson4 years ago
ashtonkem4 years ago

In spoken English, this would be expressed by ending the sentence with an exaggerated pitch change for the question and a pause; it’s a way to indicate uncertainty and give someone else an opportunity to affirm or provide a contrary opinion without conflict.

Rendering it in written English is not correct per formal rules, you’d probably never see this in an English textbook, but it’s a semi-common colloquialism in forums like these.

pier254 years ago

Putting a question mark at the end like this imitates the change of intonation when speaking with uncertainty.

Eg:

I think I left the phone in my car.

Vs

I think I left the phone in my car?

While technically incorrect in written English, this is very common in casual speaking and has found its way into casual writing.

2pEXgD0fZ5cF4 years ago

A while ago I read a french news article that talked about bullying in japan and what was mentioned in it was way beyond what counts as bullying here (except for the most severe cases). Bullying is always really bad and even just "mild" verbal or physical abuse can scar a child for life. But what apparently counts as "regular" bullying in Japan truly gave me the chills. Mentioned were things like stripping others naked, throwing away their clothes, burning their stuff, hitting them with sticks, spitting among other horrible things. The article also mentioned that this went on just as a bad online with encouragements for suicide being a frequent part of the cyber bullying.

Does someone here have any experience with japanese school life? Is it really that bad? Or did they just pick a number of the worst cases?

svara4 years ago

I don't have any particular insight on bullying in Japan specifically, but having lived there for a big chunk of my childhood I can say for sure that you have to be very, very skeptical of the "Look how weird Japan is" trope which is super common in Western media.

Those stories always follow the same pattern - pick out the most extreme example of something that you can find, then spin some superficially insightful theory around it relating it to some essential difference between Japanese culture and other cultures.

There is no such thing as essential differences. And if all that reaches your attention about a faraway place is the extremes, you are bound to come to some weird conclusions.

It's just too easy to apply this recipe to anything you don't understand well. Just imagine the stories you could tell about European student culture if you started from the Belgian Reuzegom hazing story [0], and generalized from there.

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reuzegom#Death_of_Sanda_Dia

aikinai4 years ago

The "Japan is no different from any other country" trope is just as inaccurate as the "wacky Japan" trope and in my experience has actually overtaken the original in online discussions (though news articles clearly still focus on the original).

Making a generalized story from cherry-picked anecdotes is an incredibly common strategy for journalists writing about anything. Sometimes it might actually match more general trends and sometimes not; you can't say without real statistics, which in most cases don't exist or aren't accurate anyway.

No one's tracking it carefully, so who knows if bullying in Japan is actually worse or just picked up in the zeitgeist more. But it's ridiculous to pretend like Japanese school culture isn't drastically different from that of most western countries.

jkhdigital4 years ago

In Japanese society, historically, ritual suicide was accepted as an "honorable" way to die under otherwise shameful circumstances. It seems pretty natural that, with such a cultural legacy, Japanese people (including children) would be more willing to resort to suicide.

Reinforcing your comment, the fallacy here is in assuming that the factors affecting suicide rates among Western children are identical to the factors for Japanese children, and therefore bullying in Japan must be particularly atrocious to cause the high baseline suicide rate.

Levitz4 years ago

>In Japanese society, historically, ritual suicide was accepted as an "honorable" way to die under otherwise shameful circumstances. It seems pretty natural that, with such a cultural legacy, Japanese people (including children) would be more willing to resort to suicide.

Does it really? Do you feel the same way about western society and, say, duels to the death? The many old practices regarding marriage and the church all around?

I don't think suicide as an honorable death is any more of a real thing in Japan nowadays than ninjas are.

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coldtea4 years ago
brezelgoring4 years ago

>Do you feel the same way about western society and, say, duels to the death?

Considering how common a form of retribution gun violence is in the US nowadays, yes, I'd say yes.

Could there be a case to be made in comparing American school shooters and Japanese student suicides? Maybe we'd find they had similar school experiences prior to their final moments.

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burnished4 years ago
retrac4 years ago

The relics of European honour culture, which includes duelling etc., being preserved in parts of the USA, particularly in the West and South, due to the delayed roleout of the centralised state, is a real argument made about why men from those parts can be so quick on the draw (perhaps literally) at the slightest interpersonal offence. Dunno if it's true but it doesn't seem preposterous.

srvmshr4 years ago

Japan expat resident here.

The 'suicide for preserving honor' theory has been long abandoned & mostly outlawed, even. No one in the modern generation thinks that way. The causes for suicide are mostly due to economic imbalance & high credit/ loans/ failed businesses (sadly). Children have easy access to credit cards from family, and rack up huge debts by indulging in things as part of peer pressure. I saw several case studies highlighting this when I was part of influencer marketing business.

Ritual suicide was done by seppuku - slashing out your guts, as a final act of bravery. No one does anything remotely similar.

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jkhdigital4 years ago
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andrewprock4 years ago
2pEXgD0fZ5cF4 years ago

You are right, even asking people from a country directly can give a really false impression due to the pattern you describe. As someone who has lived both in the US as well as two european countries for equal parts of my life I know very well how easily views can become distorted by listening to single cases that are not representative.

secondaryacct4 years ago

Yeah having moved to China from France, I was expecting to meet aliens honestly, and ended up concluding like you there are no essential differences between cultures.

Everything is essetially the same with some limited number of levers being pulled a bit further: girls want to marry a little bit earlier, parents are a little bit more worried abt kids, politicians a bit more corrupt, racism is targeted at different colors in a different hierarchy, all that jazz, but all the patterns I was used to in France simply fit China very well and I didnt find it so difficult to just brush off the odd difference and adapt.

My Chinese parents in law also discovered I have the same strengths and flaws any other Chinese guy their daughter could have found :D

N00bN00b4 years ago

It took me about 10 years to really understand the enormous differences between my native culture and my current culture. And those differences are staggering. And they are both western.

You're assuming you can "see" the cultural differences.

Sometimes you can easily see it, but often it's really hard to figure out, because they are going to express themselves in edge cases that you have to run into, which takes time and then it takes time to run into enough of them to be able to see a pattern.

mensetmanusman4 years ago

The modern media landscape is sub-optimal.

Seeing all these surveys that show that the more you consume media the less you know is extremely sad. I don’t think there are any short term solutions.

tkgally4 years ago

My two daughters went through Japanese public schools in Tokyo and Yokohama, and I now teach and do research about education-related topics at a university in Tokyo. My research focus is not student behavior, but I sometimes visit schools and I hear a lot of anecdotes about elementary and secondary schools from teachers and college students.

My impression is that, overall, the bullying is probably not significantly worse than in other countries, but that perhaps more media attention is focused on the issue than elsewhere. There was a major moral panic in the mid-1980s about school bullying, and the media continue to report regularly on statistical trends and extreme incidents.

Anecdotally, there seems to be a lot of variation among schools. More than one public school teacher has confided to me about how different the kids are in different neighborhoods. Japan may seem homogeneous, but there’s a lot of local variation by social class. In the tougher schools, there can be fighting, stealing, and bullying, while in other schools that might be practically unknown. Private schools can be very different from public, too, and there are a lot of single-gender schools, which have their own dynamics. Certain aspects of Japanese culture, such as age-based hierarchies, may be stronger or weaker or play out differently in different types of schools as well.

reducesuffering4 years ago

This isn’t very unique to Japan. Or at least I’ve seen schools in the US 5 min apart that had the same class discrepancy. Brawls every day and learning is for nerds in one, constant tutoring and homework in the other.

tkgally4 years ago

You’re right. Something I meant to say but didn’t in my comment above is that Japanese schools are more diverse than they seem to many people, including Japanese.

In the U.S., people tend to be keenly aware of school differences, because public schools have a lot of local autonomy and are typically locally funded. In Japan, because the curriculum and many other education-related matters are determined by the Ministry of Education, there is a large degree of apparent nationwide uniformity, especially between grades one and nine. For example, in every elementary and junior-high-school classroom I have been into in Japan, and in almost all that I’ve seen in photographs, all of the desks face the front of the room and the outside windows are on the students’ left-hand side [1]. There doesn’t seem to be any similar uniformity at least in California [2], where I went to elementary school more than fifty years ago.

This apparent uniformity can give people who have experienced Japanese schools only as students the impression that whatever they happened to experience in school—a lot of bullying, say, or none at all—must be typical of the entire country.

Of course, people in other countries might overgeneralize their individual educational experiences, too.

[1] Google image search for 小学校 教室 [elementary-school classroom]

https://www.google.co.jp/search?q=%E5%B0%8F%E5%AD%A6%E6%A0%A...

[2] Google image search for elementary-school classroom California

https://www.google.co.jp/search?q=elementary-school+classroo...

emadabdulrahim4 years ago

This reminded me of experiences I wish I could forget for when I was bullied from 2nd grade to 8th. What made it worse was by puberty, I realized I was gay, which made me feel the bullying was justified because of how reprehensible my sexual orientation was. While I don't believe this anymore, I do feel those experiences have left a deep scare that won't simply go away.

hn_throwaway_994 years ago

Similar experiences here. If you haven't, really can't emphasize the value of a good therapist, and gay men's group therapy if you can find it.

That said, I think the deep scar analogy is apt. While therapy has helped me immensely in dealing with some of my issues, those issues will always be there, so it's hard not to feel an immense amount of regret and "if only" thoughts wishing I had never been bullied in the first place.

2pEXgD0fZ5cF4 years ago

I'm sorry this happened to you. I actually find it terrible how bullying in general is seen as "part of growing up" and other nonsense or sometimes even heavily played down with lies or fabrications like "the bully himself is actually suffering/has a bad life thats why he does it" (which is in no way generally true).

Or even worse: blame is put on the victim.

rabuse4 years ago

I was a bully during my teenage years. Honestly, did it for the attention from peers, and especially the girls. It's sad to say, but girls definitely favor that mentality at that age range.

breadsphere4 years ago

There was a recent scandal in Japan where a musician named Cornelius was chosen to preform at the Paralympics and had an old interview resurface where he bragged about this type of bullying: stripping naked, force feeding someone their own feces… sadly it sounds like this was done to a handicapped person.

He was forced to resign and ultimately put a lot of pressure on prime minister Suga because he was his pick. Suga had to also step down after this and other similar incidents.

https://aramajapan.com/news/cornelius-apologizes-after-bully...

theprotocol4 years ago

> a French news article [about Japan]

Interestingly I experienced persistent bullying that included physical assault and mental abuse (it was always successfully passed off as a joke when they did something to me) in the French system.

It was so bad that I still relive it daily every single day now, many many years later.

white-moss4 years ago

I’m Japanese (24). In my own personal experience, I've never seen bullying that severe. There may be regional differences.

csa4 years ago

I lived in Japan for 8 years (not in Tokyo), and this sort of stuff was very rare and often newsworthy.

I imagine it does happen, but more often than not at urban school, at schools that are less academically oriented (e.g., construction high schools), and overall in lower socio-economic areas. The abusers are probably from abusive families.

If you’re in the burbs or the provincial parts of Japan, bullying at this extreme level is very unlikely to happen. The more common type of bullying is verbal abuse — still bad, but not like the examples you gave.

All that said, there is a form of hazing that is common in Japan that would probably be considered abusive, and that’s with high school baseball clubs. The new players on the team sometimes get boot camp-like treatment, and some folks (and sometimes coaches) take it too far. It’s theoretically all in fun and/or character building, and there are often checks and balances in place by the senior players, but I’ve heard some stories. That said, I don’t think that there are many baseball players who would not do it again.

joeberon4 years ago

> The article also mentioned that this went on just as a bad online with encouragements for suicide being a frequent part of the cyber bullying.

That doesn't surprise me at all. Back in the day 2ch, which was the forerunner of 4chan in Japan, was extremely popular, but basically just as toxic and awful as 4chan. I think in Asia generally there is a LOT of aggression online.

ekianjo4 years ago

> I think in Asia generally there is a LOT of aggression online.

In Asia? You haven't seen Twitter yet in the US.

joeberon4 years ago

> You haven't seen Twitter yet in the US.

Yes I have, and there is much more of a culture to be taken care of and get emotional support there than I've seen in other countries. Even British twitter is way harsher lol Americans are generally very kind and soft

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ekianjo4 years ago
lazyasciiart4 years ago

Sounds like a foolishly overbroad claim, perhaps you should step it back to "the Americans I follow on twitter"? https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/tennessee-man-targeted-...

Loughla4 years ago

I find that interesting, especially for countries like Korea or Japan. The stereotype of those cultures is sort of passive, and accepting of the status quo. And yet, when anonymous, the fangs come out, if not even more pointed.

I'm sure there's something there, but I'm not a social scientist. Anyone with experience in sociology/psychology have an idea what that's about?

taneq4 years ago

John Gabriel's Greater Internet F*&kwad Theory explains it succinctly (language warning): https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/325/699/4fc...

joeberon4 years ago

I think it's precisely because of that collectivism, which leads to much harsher punishment of outliers.

kelseyfrog4 years ago

Hmm, I always thought conformity-culture was the cause of social accountability of outliers. My go to example for this is the highly individual valuing, yet Patagonia vest wearing finance bros. Conformity without collectivism. It's a thing and it's much more insidious than the collectivism-conformity script we got growing up.

ekianjo4 years ago

Yes, accurate, with tacit approval of the masses, too. Which makes things even worse.

elzbardico4 years ago

I always thought that the more you repress aggression and competition, specially in human males, the more it will end up being expressed anyway, but in bursts or in passive-aggressive ways. Of course, this is just a personal hypothesis.

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JohnWhigham4 years ago
dartharva4 years ago

>The stereotype of those cultures is sort of passive, and accepting of the status quo. And yet, when anonymous, the fangs come out, if not even more pointed.

I think because can be a better replacement for yet in this sentence. Repression very often leads to higher intensity.

OneTimePetes4 years ago

This is the iceberg of "face" culture. Appear happy content and whatever society demands in public and let out the true opinion, feelings and yes, often hatred in anonymity or inner family.

Good thing we wouldn't introduce such a thing in the west.

tada1314 years ago

Does this thing even need to be introduced?

srvmshr4 years ago

> Does someone here have any experience with japanese school life? Is it really that bad? Or did they just pick a number of the worst cases?

I sincerely believe these instances were cherry picked. If such things happened regularly, it would have made an awful amount of noise in an otherwise law abiding society. Mixed raced (hafu) children do get more bullying from anecdotal evidence, but that is more of name calling or poking some fun at visual attribute. My knowledge about the situation is limited to Tokyo & Osaka, but that is pretty much where most of the foreigners/ mixed race families are to be found.

euske4 years ago

Probably it is overblown, but I wouldn't be surprised if this actually happened somewhere (certainly not regular though).

That said, I'll say that bullying in Japan is different in that it is orchestrated. Peer pressure is enormous in Japan. When someone is being bullied, very few of us can raise an objection because doing so would make you the next target. So everyone is becoming an enabler. (Actually, this is not just kids' matter. It's pretty much how the whole society functions here. No wonder adults can't stop kids bullying - they're just imitating adults!)

Raztuf4 years ago

Watching anime (yeah yeah I know) I used to laugh at the absurdity of the bullying and how sexual it all was. I had no idea that bullying is really that bad in Japan. That's extremely sad.

dartharva4 years ago

The frequency of how much of what appears to be outlandish bullying gets portrayed in Japanese shows could be an indicator of how normalized it has become there. I have watched some anime too, and I cringed every time they showed those cartoonishly evil bullying scenes. They appeared so unrealistic to me, but reading this discussion it seems it might have actually been a quite relatable theme for Japanese audiences.

ganzuul4 years ago

OP said 'appears to'. You are saying 'is'.

Sharpen up.

aidenn04 years ago

> Mentioned were things like stripping others naked, throwing away their clothes, burning their stuff, hitting them with sticks, spitting among other horrible things.

All of these things happened to at least one person I know growing up in the US.

new2994 years ago

This is probably something that varies a lot by area but based on my observations of elementary school students (who I’ve seen the most of) and others. The situations you describe sound like pretty strong outliers.

I would want to see pretty strong (non anecdotal) evidence to think otherwise.

2pEXgD0fZ5cF4 years ago

Yeah it is always hard to get a proper picture of something like actual school life based on one (or a few) articles when in reality often not even parents of the children themselves know what is really going on.

ekianjo4 years ago

> Does someone here have any experience with japanese school life?

No direct experience but heard stories of bullying of children of friends/colleagues living in Japan and that was scary enough.

noobermin4 years ago

This sounds inline with bullying in the US honestly, at least in the rougher schools.

radicaldreamer4 years ago

Per-country data on suicides should be treated skeptically because most cultures have a strong aversion to suicide and listing cause of death as suicide.

Many are classified as accidents and authorities are generally fine with this. Additionally, suicides are usually not reported by the media to prevent copycat suicides.

What I'm saying is that the "actual rate" of suicides is probably higher, maybe by a lot, in many countries than the official rate.

KennyBlanken4 years ago

Even if the absolute number is wrong (which it isn't, necessarily), the relative trend is dramatically upward, and the biases you describe wouldn't appear to account for such a trend.

> The results show a record-high 415 children killed themselves in the year through March. That's up nearly 100 from the previous school year.

I believe this is mirrored in other countries. The pandemic really hasn't been great for a lot of middle/high school kids.

Also: please be mindful that generally if some "obvious fault" occurs to you, it probably occurs to the people for whom this is their professional area of expertise or even life's work, their work has likely been reviewed by a number of their peers, etc. Internet discussion forum commenters are highly unlikely to be the first person to think of some flaw in their work.

I'm not saying they always will do said correction, but that if you're going to be skeptical, check to see if the correction was made instead of just dismissing or discounting the data, and be especially careful about your personal biases.

Note that such corrections might only get a passing mention because corrections for under-reporting is so common in epidemology.

tsimionescu4 years ago

Absolutely. Just to add to your examples of why soluicide is systematically under-reported in certain countries, in many Eastern Orthodox countries (Eastern Europe, Russia, Greece), suicide is considered a mortal sin and victims of suicide are denied burial in religious cemeteries (and denied normal religious burial rights) by the church.

maxgashkov4 years ago

Not only that, but in Russia you may be slapped with the fine for the 'propaganda of suicide' (I shit you not it's the real law) if you even discuss suicide on more or less popular platform.

ed_balls4 years ago

> denied burial in religious cemeteries

Same for Catholics and most of Christians, hence no suicide attacks.

lazyasciiart4 years ago

That hasn't been true since the 1960's, in the case of Catholics. https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-catholic-churchs-own-compl...

ed_balls4 years ago

but the stigma is still there.

yyy888sss4 years ago

Strongly agree. Recently an important religious leader in my town died, and the police stated it was accident though they had clear evidence it was suicide because they knew it would distress the public less.

wyager4 years ago

I’ve heard that Japan will classify murder-suicide deaths as suicide deaths, because their word for “suicide” actually has a slightly different denotation.

naniwaduni4 years ago

Are murder-suicides not classed as suicides outside of Japan?

wyager4 years ago

The people who get killed are not counted as suicide deaths in most countries.

gfody4 years ago

similarly how eskimos have a bunch of words for "snow", and new yorkers have a bunch of words for "pizza", japanese have a bunch of words for "suicide"

xster4 years ago

When making blanket statements, some citations could help

BeFlatXIII4 years ago

Pretty much all fatal single-car accidents are suicides, IIRC. Cops play nice with the grieving family so they can get their life insurance benefits.

wahern4 years ago

In much (most? all?) of the United States, life insurance contracts generally cover suicide, except that individual policies will typically have 2-3 year exclusion period.

My individual term life policy has a 2-year exclusion period, but otherwise covers suicide. I can't track down the precise reasons for this, whether its related to case law, state statutes, etc. Closest hit I found for California was Insurance Code § 11066(h), but that's for policies issued by fraternal societies. (It probably echoes some other statute or case law.) There are endless Google hits from law and insurance web sites stating this general fact.

rscnt4 years ago

Do you have sources for this? Here in El Salvador we have highways without lamps, streets that drivers treat as highways, crosswalk where you cannot longer see the painting.

I guess you're referring to the U.S., right?

lazyasciiart4 years ago

That's completely false. Among many other factors, about 50% of single-car crashes involve passengers, which would imply a disturbingly high number of murder-suicides.

radicaldreamer4 years ago

I think maybe OP meant single passenger car accident

BeFlatXIII4 years ago

Yes, single-occupant single-car crashes.

gfody4 years ago

are you counting unintentional like falling asleep behind the wheel?

danschumann4 years ago

I can't say anything proactive about this situation.. but I can say things. Do you find that the emotional juice of a situation is more primary than the logic of a situation? Like, people feel something and then rationalize the logic to justify their feeling. I have found that using feelingswheel to get a firmer grasp on the specific emotional chords, connections and common "songs" I tend to play, etc, has increased my ability to identify and categorize emotions on a finer level. Categorization is the least thing that must be done in order to process hurt. The brain will try to process a situation until it understands it, and it can require using emotional intuition to identify the exact feeling, as if it were a chord played on a piano, where some notes are hit more than others. It's important to categorize granular feelings (like indignant is a form of anger whereby you're upset that something is unfair) (embarassment can be a sad hurt or a disapproving disgust) (some feelings lead to other feelings) (dismissive anger is repressed by default from feeling like anger) Some people don't have true feelings, because they will automatically convert one feeling to another. Instead of feeling angry sometimes and happy other times, they feel the liminal angry/happy feeling that feels like a mecurial wire of an emotion. For instance: if they're happy, they become angry that they aren't happy more often; if they're angry about something, they're glad that they finally have something to be mad about.

icu4 years ago

Thank you for mentioning the Feelings Wheel. I never knew it existed and when I looked it up I could immediately see its use with my parenting as my son struggles to express his emotional state. I wonder if you've used it, or the Emotion Wheel, with children or for other use cases like conflict resolution in the workplace?

danschumann4 years ago

I've found benefit across all areas of life. When dealing with other people, I find it helpful to at least be cognizant of the main emotional category, but it's easier to feel the specificity in yourself than in others.

skim_milk4 years ago

>people feel something and then rationalize the logic to justify their feeling

Kind of sounds like projection. Depending on who you ask, it's generally understood in psychology that children raised by cold/rejecting/invalidating/selfish/abusive parents develop it to cope with having age-appropriate emotions that offend their parents. It could be perceived as a way to manipulate/convince the cold/rejecting parents into giving them what the child needs (food, attention, etc.) without feeling bad for having their age-appropriate, healthy needs - a habit that outlasts its need and stays through adulthood to the detriment of everyone. A healthy response would be to not feel bad for having feelings and, due to successfully developing self-acceptance, integrate/communicate all their emotions and rationality in a healthy way.

lemoncookiechip4 years ago

Makes you think that COVID "helped" expose a lot of what was already wrong with our society (globally) over the past 2 years.

In this case (underage suicide) specifically, some factors would be depression and domestic violence due to mandated isolation.

Forcing abusive parents to spend time with their children, and having children who are depressed or were on the verge of depression, enter a state of desperation that could lead to suicide rates spiking.

A depressive topic in itself.

PS: Should note that these are just two of the most likely reasons for the increase in children suicide, but not the only.

EricE4 years ago

The real crime? Lockdowns didn't change a darned thing - I wish I could say I'm amazed the press doesn't talk about Sweden at all; sadly at this point I expect them to be biased and interested at protecting the current political narrative more than actually doing their jobs.

Context: https://fee.org/articles/sweden-s-top-infectious-disease-exp...

somehowlinux4 years ago
hajile4 years ago

Sweden’s vaccination rates (75% with another 5-10% having the first shot) are not really lower than surrounding countries.

No reason to lock down at that point unless the vaccine is ineffective.

mbg7214 years ago

So is COVID a health crisis, or just a springboard to force societal change? This is why there's so much chaos and distrust.

AndrewBissell4 years ago

This just seems like a euphemistic way of saying that lockdowns made a lot of bad problems worse. When they were implemented there were plenty of voices warning at the time that they would cause children to suffer more abuse, depression, and suicide.

zz8654 years ago

The worst thing is that children aren't at risk of covid, their parents aren't much either. The lockdowns are all to protect the boomers.

CountDrewku4 years ago

Yet I'm still seeing schools strap masks on elementary students and all other sorts of abusive trends that will harm their development. The worst thing is that people warned about the dangers of isolating these kids from school, their friends, and berating them with sensationalist media causing their anxiety levels to go off the charts.

This is 100% a case of the pandemic response being worse than the disease. Risks from COVID for kids is minimal. What really bothers me is that people who warned of this were berated for not following "the science", censored and labeled as someone who didn't care about COVID deaths. Imo schools should have never closed.

Unfortunately, I think there will be a lot of fallout from the poor response in years to come.

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watwut4 years ago
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fomine34 years ago
Markoff4 years ago

the worst thing these kids are much more likely to die from suicide than from COVID, yet you see whole COVID theatre to protect them, but nothing to stop suicides

frockington14 years ago

Depression, suicide, drug abuse, supply shortages, inflation, people not returning to the workforce. A year ago you would have been cancelled for daring to voice negative consequences to lockdowns

umanwizard4 years ago

Yep, the prevailing narrative was “all these negative effects are bad, but at least they’re not death!” which totally ignores the probabilistic nature of the set of outcomes. An x% chance of something bad happening to you might indeed be worse than a y% chance of death, depending on the values of x and y — but this sort of analysis was (and still is) totally missing from mainstream acceptable discussion of our response to Covid.

tremon4 years ago

I don't think I have seen many mainstream acceptable discussions about the Covid response -- most were nothing but emotive monologues from this or that person, and two or three simultaneous monologues do not make an acceptable discussion.

Also, I don't think it would have been useful to talk about Covid response policy using figures like "X% chance of death!", since it sounds like a weather forecast and we can't even get those right one day in advance, let alone when determining policy for the entire year. And you can't conclude from absence of public discussion that these figures or expectations weren't discussed privately.

Yes, it would have been better for the policymakers to voice their reservations and motivations in public, but I'm not willing to blame the politicians for not doing that. In order to have a nuanced political discussion, all parties need to play ball. It is counterproductive for a politician to take a well-argued public position when the media only wants ten-second soundbites and actively looks ways to embarrass and undermine said politician, and when the public isn't remotely interested in a nuanced position because the tribe has already spoken.

To me, the Covid response in the West highlights a failure of democracy. That is not the same as a failure of politics, trying to pin all blame for the failure of democracy on the current politicians is just another symptom of the underlying problem. Instead, it is a failure of society at large. It seems we are no longer willing and/or capable to have an honest and open debate about matters of public policy, and that is a sad situation. I'm not even going to try and hint at the wide array of causes and consequences that led us to this point, just expressing dismay that I don't see the situation improving for the better any time soon.

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logicalmonster4 years ago
throw89328944 years ago

Helped? If you isolate kid from its friends for 18 months and imprison it in small room, it will become suicidal. There is no need for abusive parents. Lockdowns themselfs are evil!

elcamino444 years ago

It’s probably worth noting that Japan hasn’t had that kind of lockdown. Schools, after school activities, etc for most part have continued throughout the pandemic.

0des4 years ago

When you say "for the most part", what do you mean?

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elcamino444 years ago
Markoff4 years ago

that's not what article says: "Also, a record high of over 190,000 students of elementary and junior high schools stopped attending."

watwut4 years ago

Is it necessary to constantly lie about what kind of lockdowns various countries had?

dartharva4 years ago

Shitposting about child suicides now? Very mature.

mabub244 years ago

Even beyond attending school during Covid-19, which by itself has been disruptive and challenging, I've heard from a number of friends who emigrated from Japan that the Japanese school experience can be pretty dismal.

I also think some people are too quick to disregard the degree to which young people pick up on the quality of life and lifestyle of their parents and adults. The salaryman/woman lifestyle, the extremely long working hours, and the culture of extreme deference to work hierarchies, can be soul destroying, even for your children.

ekianjo4 years ago

One things that's missing from this article is that the familial context is not there to support children in Japan. Before COVID, kids are expected to spend most of the waking life at school or in the school context (they even have activity clubs in the weekends, at school, and cram schools after school pretty much everyday).

The day COVID hit, children were suddenly brought back to stay at home in an environment where parents were never used to having them around.

Markoff4 years ago

Japan's education ministry says its latest annual survey shows the number of schoolchildren who killed themselves topped 400 for the first time. Also, a record high of over 190,000 students of elementary and junior high schools stopped attending.

The ministry conducts an annual survey of elementary, junior and senior high schools, and schools for special needs education across the country. It covers bullying, truancy and suicides among students.

On Wednesday, the ministry published the results of its survey conducted for the 2020 school year.

The results show a record-high 415 children killed themselves in the year through March. That's up nearly 100 from the previous school year. Seven of the students were in elementary school, 103 in junior high and 305 in senior high.

The number of elementary and junior high school students who were absent for 30 days or more was 196,127. That's up nearly 15,000 from the previous year and a record high.

The rate of children who were absent has also been on the rise. The rate for elementary children increased threefold over the past ten years, to one out of 100. The rate for junior high was one out of 24, up 50 percent.

The survey also looked into the number of children who stopped attending school due to concerns over coronavirus infection.

It shows the total of 30,287 elementary, junior high and senior high school students were absent for 30 days or more due to such concerns.

Eguchi Arichika, student affairs division chief at the ministry, says the results show that changes in school and household environments due to the pandemic have had a huge impact on children's behavior, and that the increase in the number of suicides is very regrettable.

The official adds that the ministry will work to encourage children to seek help, and to ensure learning opportunities for children who cannot attend school.

wirrbel4 years ago

The Poisson distribution was first described discussing the incidence of suicide in children in Prussia, if I recall correctly.

On the main matter: Societies need to cater more and better for the interest of children. All too often all other concerns come first (and children are an after thought to the interest of parents, which also aren't entirely high up in the priority list).

ajsnigrutin4 years ago

I've seen a few pop-documentaries about children in japan (and korea and china), where they show kids leaving their home at early hours, then doing a lot of work in school, then afterschool scholwork, aditional lectures, and then they come home at late night hours, sleep, and repeat.

I'm not sure how much of this is true and/or a stereotype, but even elsewhere, i've seen parents overcrowding their kids (school)work schedules (+extracurricular activities) to absurd amounts, where the kids can't handle it anymore.

This is in comparison to my childhood, where pretty much everyone had school from 8-until somewhere between noon and 2pm (depending on the year), and after that we pretty much just "went out" and did "stupid kid stuff" (mostly hanging out)

simonh4 years ago

My kids are Anglo-Chinese, they went to school there for literally a few days so I don't have personal experience, but a friend's son went to school in China until he was about 10 I think and is now in school here in the UK.

His son thinks school in the UK is ridiculously easy. His teachers think he's amazing because he always hands in work early, it's always very neat and well done, he started off well ahead of kids his own age in maths and the sciences that are in common with Chinese schooling. The work ethic he learned there is working very well for him.

Having said that, my friend particularly wanted his son to come here for secondary education. The system over there is excessively regimented and oppressive. Education here is much broader with more scope for creativity and extra-curricular activities. They're very different systems.

joeberon4 years ago

What I don't understand is that if you look at the performance of Chinese academics it isn't particularly exceptional compared to those who had lazy upbringings in the west. Surely they should be basically superhuman in their academic achievements? I am extremely lazy, and had a very crappy lazy school experience, even at British university, and yet I was not significantly worse than my Chinese clearly-a-genius PhD supervisor. In fact I do not see any particular difference in research quality or output when comparing people who had intense school careers to those who had easy and laid back ones. Somehow the intense academic training in those countries does not seem to translate into actual research output.

simonh4 years ago

For all it's apparent advantages, the Chinese education system also has some pretty deep flaws. A family friend in China is the head of the Computer Science department at a local university. This was a few years ago, but he told me none of their graduates ever, as part of their studies, actually compile and run any code. They are taught java, algorithms and theory but no practical exercises, it's all on paper. That's not necessarily true of every institution, I've met some great coders from China, but they're mostly self taught.

Also even if you had the best students, they are constrained by the institutions they are in and the experience of their professors. It takes generations to develop deep institutional experience and culture. They know this, and expend a lot of effort trying to get experienced Chinese academics that have studied abroad in western institutions to come back to China.

Vrondi4 years ago

We see this among students who come to American universities from certain parts of Asia: serious knowledge of syntax, but not able to navigate the OS, use the IDE, or compile the code. I've heard this same scenario of learning programming on paper from multiple countries.

And, also, if you know the syntax of a few languages cold, but you have no creative practice at problem-solving, are lacking foundational computer science concepts and practice, then by the time you are in college or grad school, another language may have come along, while you may have to struggle to apply existing knowledge and creativity to new tools (which is the point of a CS degree).

Some students have no mental toolkit to rely on other than brute force memorizing the syntax of a new language. The difference is highly noticeable, even at a low level of college work.

jkhdigital4 years ago

Compulsory education is all about the median student, not the outliers. I suspect that performance at the top end of the curve, i.e. people who tend to get PhDs and become professors, is influenced much more by personality and graduate-level educational experiences.

dustintrex4 years ago

The point of all the studying is to ace the entrance exams, not learn anything about research or original thinking. At least in Japan, once you're actually in the university, you can pretty much slack off for the next four year until you graduate and face the next grueling phase of your life, becoming a junior salaryman.

runeblaze4 years ago

One popular explanation is usually the scarcity of educational resources in China. In China, you work really hard so that you can out-exam the other students so that you can get into some decent college. The gist is that China has limited higher-educational resource (so graduates on average do not come out that well) and a large population base (so people really need to work hard to fight for the little resource).

whoevercares4 years ago

It’s more statistically significant- check how Chinese names dominated CV conferences

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joeberon4 years ago
tikkabhuna4 years ago

Anecdote from my visit to Beijing. We stayed in a guesthouse type place with a courtyard in the middle. A child around 7-8 was doing homework with her mum until 9/10pm while we played cards and drank beer.

As a kid I would have been playing games or watching TV at that time.

yodsanklai4 years ago

who was taking care of you in the afternoon?

ajsnigrutin4 years ago

For younger kids (6, 7, 8yo), there was "afternoon care" in school where they did their homework and then went outside to the school playgound and played with stuff. For older ones, they went home after school, and stay there, or go out, and parents usually came home at 3, 4 in the afternoon. For even older ones (13 14, 15,..), they usually stay at home until the parents come home, and then go out again.

germinalphrase4 years ago

Would you mind sharing general region and decide for context?

My American Midwestern childhood was largely similar in the late 90’s, but I still had one parent at home full time.

ajsnigrutin4 years ago

Then it was yugoslavia, and then slovenia (i didn't move, the country fell apart)... late 80s, and the whole 90s.

So large apartment buildings in large neighbourhoods with a lot of kids of same age there (due to the way apartments were distributed), and after school, if you were bored at home, you just went out, because someone was always outside.

Parents usually worked from 6am-2pm (factory workers) or 8am-4pm (administration), so they would come home after the kids, but this was seen as normal here. The elementary schools (6/7yo - 14/15yo here) were usually a walking distance from home in the cities, so we'd be by ourselves... High school usually ended somewhere between 1pm-3pm, and you'd take a bus ride home, and depending on where your parents worked, you might still be home before them.

We did have extra-curricular activities, but usually you did one thing (eg. had football practice twice per week for 2 hours if you werent a "pro" in your age group), but it was unusal to have your day totally filled up.

I don't have kids, but a lot of my friends do, and a half of them do it in a way as we did, but about half of them sign their kids up for every activity possible, so after school it's horseriding lessons, and then tennis practice, and then music school, so they drive them around for that.... I'm not sure how a busy schedule like that would work on me in that age, but i'm pretty sure i prefered the laid-back method, and I still had no issues, from elementary school to my engineering degree.

mensetmanusman4 years ago

“ Also, a record high of over 190,000 students of elementary and junior high schools stopped attending. “

I feel like we are entering an era where different communities are experiencing a feast or famine in regards to how they are flourishing in the ‘modern’ world. At the zoomed out earth-scale, it seems to be a darwinian process of discovering which behaviors will exist in a century (because the only vote that matters for the future is how well your children are doing, birth rates, etc.).

riskable4 years ago

> a darwinian process of discovering...

There's certainly a darwinian process going on with COVID-19 right now in regards to the vaccinated and willfully unvaccinated. What's not darwinian is what went on during lockdowns where well-off parents could afford to let one stay at home to keep their kids from goofing off while attending online classes.

I am unhopeful that society at large will use that as a lesson learned about providing resources to the less fortunate so their children can get the (online) education they need (even if it's just an adult keeping watch over a handful of kids). If we have another pandemic with lockdowns like this I highly suspect it will go pretty much exactly the same.

To be fully prepared for pandemics of the future families will need the resources necessary to keep an adult at home to watch over the children going through online learning. Giving people remote work opportunities could be a great (societal) inoculation, as it were against such inequities.

webmobdev4 years ago

I also remember reading that many murder cases are sometimes intentionally or mistakenly re-classified as a suicide to close it, because the Japanese police are under a lot of pressure to maintain their high rate of solving cases.

Suicides in Japan perhaps have an additional attraction in that insurance companies have to payout even if the cause of death is suicide.

Couple that with the asian cultural pressure of taking care of one's family, and the cultural factor that suicide on personal failure is linked to honour and glorified in Japanese history, it becomes somewhat understandable why some Japanese individuals may find suicide as a reasonable / attractive option while contemplating how to end their depressive existence.

Japan's suicide statistics don't tell the real story - https://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2013/02/03/national/media-...

djmips4 years ago

I don't know if I've ever seen a sadder headline...

irrational4 years ago

I'm always confused when "child" is used for teenagers. I always assume child means elementary school kids and it throws me when I realize they mean older kids.

someonehere4 years ago

Could have sworn I read an article a few months ago that suicide rates amongst Gen Z was increasing because of Covid lockdowns and social media causing depression/loneliness.

I’m not Gen Z nor are my friends, but they sometimes make me feel like they fall into this bucket of “should I check on them more often?” for the two items I laid out above.

Deep down I’m blaming social media for the increase in suicide amongst younger kids. It’s a pony show to them and they all want to outdo each other.

I went to a pumpkin patch over the weekend and two late teen girls spent an hour or so trying to get the best photos holding sunflowers. The place I was at let you pick your own sunflowers. These two girls were dressed up and proceeded to set up a camera stand for one of their cell phones that had a ring light around it. They spent that time trying to get the best photo to post to their IG pages and TikTok.

I get it that maybe they want to work on photography, but they spent way more effort and time than they should have when they were debating what to post to IG and TikTok.

::shrug::

thrav4 years ago

To be fair to them, taking a great picture at a pumpkin patch is an American tradition. They often go on the Christmas Card. I was out there attaching a tripod to a fence and trying to get a good family portrait for my daughter’s first year walking.

If they spent the majority of the day outside, I feel like they have a leg up on many kids who never leave the house.

I was trying to do similar things on MySpace when I was their age; Or spending similar amounts of time chained to my desk chatting with girls on AIM; Or more frequently losing 8 hours at a clip to playing an FPS.

I had one staying in my house this weekend. They’re not as bad as we think they are. Most of my concern sits with the way the parents behave.

ED_Radish4 years ago

I'm Gen Z and seemingly am an outlier in that I had a pretty decent experience over the past year or so of lockdown.

Given that I only really use this and Discord, there might be a correlation there?

EricE4 years ago

We have real evidence the lockdowns were totally unnecessary - see: https://fee.org/articles/sweden-s-top-infectious-disease-exp...

And yet they still persist in many parts of the world.

pwned_vnm_alx4 years ago

First thing's first, what I've typed below is all based on first-hand experience, which might be not representative of the general population, but probably not that far from how these kids who kill themselves feel.

First thing being that's being done wrong by parents is not treating their children like adults. The culmination of such treatment comes when the child gets separated from their parents, for example by going to college, and starts doing stuff like drinking/smoking/doing drugs/what else not because there are no parents present to punish him for it. Problem is that the child's subconscious thinks that the bad thing happening to him because of, for example, smoking, is not lung cancer and what not, but the punishment from his parents, so when they are not there to do the punishment, there is nothing wrong with doing all that stuff. In general, not letting children to make decisions and then deal with the consequences on their own leads to a population of people who are unable to think for themselves and who, while they have been told what's good or bad, haven't internalized that knowledge, as there is no opportunity to do so. You know, brain is kind of like a muscle, you have to train it when it's not really needed for it to be capable when it is. Actually Lois Rossman has quite a bit of parental advice that seems decent to me. There is also a great emotional disconnect between the parents and their children. At least the message I've got from my parents is that I shouldn't even bother talking to them as there is a lack of even basic effort to try to understand what I'm trying to tell them. Not trying to blame anyone here, feeling exhausted after a workday is a thing but maybe considering not having children if you're unable to treat them properly is also a thing. Honestly, I think dropping fertility is a good thing, as being more conscious about raising children is at least partially the reason, and that's a good thing.

Then school inevitably comes. You honestly can't expect an underpaid overworked teacher to manage 30 children in a class, there is just too much stuff going on. But, because teachers are underpaid and overworked, it is a low prestige profession so if things don't change, the problem isn't going to solve itself. Then there is the learning process. Problem is, in school people don't learn, they are being schooled, and then there is some learning happening as a secondary on the side. Problem with learning while being schooled usually is that the pace is way different and there is a ton of unnecessary extras. Here are couple of examples:

My English teacher would accept essays and other stuff that are typed, not written by hand, so what I would do is type them first, then just write down what I've typed. Why the extra step? Could be beneficial to go through the material another time and what not, but that could be done without spending the time and effort on writing it all down. At least in the professional environment, everything is being done digitally these days, so an all-digital workflow clearly works.

Maths homework was probably worst of them all because of how much of it accomplished so little. It is very much repetition based, so a lot of the time the task you're given a set of 10 identical problems, just with different inputs in them. That way by the fifth one, it takes a second to solve it and a minute to write down the solution, and there are 5 more like this ahead. That way, there is just muscle memory being built for solving that one problem, and exactly nothing is happening to the understanding of the subject, broader understanding of mathematics, creative thinking and problem solving, arguably very much needed skills in real life situations. In general, there are very little 'reality checks' that might indicate a problem a person has but himself is unaware of.

Yeah, you better remember things by writing them down and all that, there are way better ways to do all this though. From personal experience, I've learned much more and much quicker from actually doing projects which required the knowledge I've needed. Knowledge retention is also much better and you actually have something material to show after the thing. Homework itself, in the form we have it now, is clearly damaging to relationships with children and their parents in general, as parents tend to care about things being done more than the well-being of the child. Results of that are genuinely horrific at times. Also there is that old text about a guy being unable to learn anything from a his professor's lecture, but understanding things immediately after reading part of a book that professor was referring to in his lecture. I'd say exchanging lectures for books and using professor's time for one on one discussion if there is a problem with understanding it's contents would be a much better use of everyone's time. What I mean by all this is that school is laborious without need, or at least feels so, damaging to relationships, concentrated on remembering stuff and not actually acquiring any useful skills and all that.

Then there are people at school Honestly, would feel good if people weren't called circle-jerks in class by the professor, who is angry (more correct term would be salty) that no one is doing their grad project with him, which happened because he calls people circle-jerks in class. Would feel good if the professor actually paid attention to my project and didn't ask, what that circuit drawing has to do with it, while that exact drawing has been basically copied one to one into the overall project schematic. Both happened the other week. This assumption that teacher is this unquestionable all-knowing figure of authority is very ill-minded, and overall power dynamics are sometimes very problematic in academia. Though younger teachers are much, much better. Then there are your peers. Everyone is trying to one-up each other and being left alone to do your thing is not really an option, probably partially because of this built-up grudge, which happens for the reason I have described above. Interest circles are largely dissolved and at least in my experience, connecting to people without directly being introduced to them by someone is increasingly difficult. Platforms like tinder are considered, speaking in gen-z terms, 'cringe' (I'd say tinder is very exploitative with it's business model, but that's not the problem being addressed). Besides that, with all the extra-curriculums, homework and general attitude by parents to make their kids busy, there is not that much time to go outside and do things that you actually enjoy, or finding such things. So there is basically pressure at school from peers and teachers, pressure from parents at home and being constantly busy doing stuff which prevents you from thinking about your issues and potentially dealing with them. There is a big need for a place of some relief, and social media and the internet tend to fill that role.

Well, if we're talking about social media here, there is a lot wrong with them also. I'd say these days there is a tendency for relationships to become parasocial, like 'I follow you on socials, you follow me on socials, but we don't actually talk to each other directly', so what would have been a two-way conversation between two people turns into two one-way ones. Then, exposure is spread very unevenly. Some people tend to get lots of attention and generally are popular, while some get none. This attention is of very varying quality, but getting it is still a message of acceptance by society, while getting none sends you a message that you are rejected. Texting people on social media out of the blue is generally a bad idea, because most people who do that are scammers, advertisers and people trying to get you to distribute drugs for money and so there is a tendency to treat strangers like you would treat someone spamming your email. This lack of attention basically sends people a message that they are not welcome/needed/wanted/desired in general. After some time in this circle the person starts to feel that it's not like they're in a bad situation, but that he himself is bad in some way. What they learn in the end is that there is no place for them in the society, and that other people don't care about their situation.

The stuff above might be not factually correct but that's how troubled people experience things, from which they learn their apparent place in society.

Returning to the girls taking pictures and posting them to IG/TikTok are probably fine just fine. Actual people who are in danger are not doing all this stuff and are basically invisible cause they just bottle up all the stress, and after some time they may be unable to deal with it because they never had a chance to learn to. There is also lack of prospects in life (ever increasing rent, working minimum wage for most of your life and other stuff) and what not. When things add up, we see statistics like this.

Personally, I don't know, if generations prior had it easier or something, but I don't see these lowering any time soon, and actually was kinda wondering why haven't they gone up before

tamaharbor4 years ago

Coronavirus aside, I wonder how many of these deaths are related to TikTok, Facebook, and Twitter use.

prepend4 years ago

This is the kind of stuff that should be possible and valuable to study but requires TikTok, Facebook, etc to run the study since the data is all on their servers.

I expect that the analysis has been done internally and just not released since it’s bad (ie, social media use is higher among suicides). Maybe a whistleblower will leak this stuff.

I think an analysis is possible by building off their typical drop off analysis. I think that because I expect all drop offs are likely analyzed to restart and avoid future drop offs. So I expect they have a way to classify people who died vs left the platform.

In the US we release a “death master file” that has names, dob, ssn a few years after death. If Japan has something similar it can be run against account holder data to see who actually died. I don’t know privacy law in Japan, but in the US cause of death is confidential. So we just know that a kid died and would need to predict cause of death from social media activity.

With this low number, they could be investigated manually to see how many children had accounts and what patterns exist in common.

nivenkos4 years ago

What about drugs, and video games, and Satan worship?

Taywee4 years ago

Not everything is puritanical pearl clutching. Some things are actually measurably bad for you. Comparing any old criticism of something as unhealthy to the satanic panic and conservative anti video game pushes isn't helpful at all, and doesn't really make much of an argument.

inkblotuniverse4 years ago

I could imagine video games making someone's life worse. They're addictive and mostly non-productive.

mensetmanusman4 years ago

Satan worship is in jest, but it’s interesting the root word for Satan, the devil, diablos (διάβολος) describes the ‘spirit of division’ in human societies.

Worshiping conflict would aptly describe social media in many areas, so the ancients were on to something :)

agent3274 years ago

You are being voted down, but I can think of little as harmful as the open sewer that is unfiltered social media, especially to younger people that haven't yet learned not to take it all personally.

EricE4 years ago

I grew up in the era of dialup, BBS's and USENET - and it did warp my perceptions a little. I can't imagine how being exposed to social media as an adolescent - or younger - could have seriously screwed up my perceptions of society.

Elsewhere someone sarcastically asked about video games - if 1/10th the concern that was shown in the 80's and 90's over video games towards social media I think we all would be having a much different conversation.

I dunno why up until recently social media has been pretty much getting a pass. It's nice to see at least some discussion of it, especially in relation to kids, showing up in more places. I'm always amazed and somewhat appalled by how many of my peers I see just hand over phones or tablets to their kids to occupy them. At least in the past when parents parked kids in front of the TV it was one way and limited to fairly "safe" content.

Ha - after having typed that it sure makes the concerns voiced over TV in the past feel very, very quaint in comparison. Something I really hadn't considered before now.

srvmshr4 years ago

ex-Adtech engineer living in Japan.

You'd be surprised how many horror stories I have encountered about teenage girls commiting suicides due to peer pressure, credit card loans & inability to keep up with fashion trends.

taurath4 years ago

People are really grasping for meaning and a sense of belonging nowadays in this phase of global capitalism. We could do so much better at helping people find a calling rather than hoping capitalist business owners provide them.

skhr06804 years ago

It’s sad but I’m not surprised. Senior high school is widely viewed as the best years of ones life in Japan, and kids who started in 2020 have had to live with senior high school (minus the fun parts) for 1.5/3 years.

gxt4 years ago

someone should get funding to check links between antiperspirant use and depression/effects of dark thoughts.

Anecdata: My mood improved gradually after I stopped using retail antiperspirants. At some point (aka 12-18 months later) I got pissed of never being dry and went back to the stuff. It took 12h before the dark thoughts were back, took 3 showers as soon as I noticed, and it still took 3 days for the effect to stop being noticeable. Since this event I strongly think antiperspirants should be studied to confirm this is not just my mind playing tricks on me.

Beaver1174 years ago

What do you use instead? Do you have hyperhidrosis?

dartharva4 years ago

It's so hard to not feel sentimental about this. Suffering to such a degree that you you take your own life is the most horrible way to go, and it's beyond heartbreaking that children are going through this. And the 415 kids are the ones who went through with it, who knows how many thousands go struggling for finding their will to live every day. Japan, and all other countries where this is an issue, need severe and disruptive interventions urgently.

giantg24 years ago

I wonder how these correlate to parental success status. It seems the culture wants children to be successful. Children sometimes compare themselves with or view it as a competition with parents. Ones with high successful parents sometime lose hope of being better/successful (see a bunch of boys of successful male actors of the past).

ganzuul4 years ago

Let's not forget the self-silencing rape victims among them.

graynk4 years ago

Can I ask why is this on HN? How is this in any way related to tech?

mathrall4 years ago

This is alarming; Japan is already on the verge of a population shortage as it's quite difficult for them to have children. Even with the help of the Government's benefits, it doesn't suffice. They should address this issue right away.

swutas4 years ago

You think the problem with a child suicide spike is that it might cause a population shortage??

iamgopal4 years ago

Last line can be applied to almost any problem, and can be seen as a de-facto method for solving problem.

sumedh4 years ago

They can solve it with immigration but Japanese people apparently dont like it.

rataata_jr4 years ago

Japanese actually care about their people in this regard. Lowest crime, and other good things...

sumedh4 years ago

> Lowest crime, and other good things...

and yet Japan has a high suicide rate compared to many other high multi cultural developed countries.

rabuse4 years ago

Homogeneous societies seem to be more stable than ones with cultural diversity. Change my mind.

inkblotuniverse4 years ago

Importing foreigners isn't a solution, and besides, they become infertile too (within a few generations) if they adopt the local culture.

notsureaboutpg4 years ago

Suicide and depression are incredibly difficult things for anyone to address because they stem from unquantifiable things. When people feel like life is not worth living, despite having so many material goods and most of their basic needs taken care of, what is a government to do? Suicide and depression are high in developed, stable countries. Many people there have everything but feel there is no point to life. Our cultures of extreme nihilism which deemphasize the worth of human life are not something a government can fix even if desired.

g354g43b434 years ago

The same pressure those kids are feeling to succeed is the same pressure American men in their 30's and 40's feel to succeed and are killing themselves in record numbers.